Do you really need to file bankruptcy to financially stay afloat?

Middle class is increasingly filing bankruptcy. For some the American Dream has ended. Couples are confused about their wrong turns.

Many people are sitting at the dinner table covered with bills that have past due notices stamp from front to back. There is a hesitation of answering the phone every time it rings. The oblivious factor kicks in when the bills are due.

We have been programmed that the American dream consists of buying the best education and home. I am not dismissing furthering your education.

I too have indulged in higher education and have become a homeowner. However, it was with great planning and sacrifice.

It’s time to look at oneself and ask the pertinent questions.


1. Do I live to satisfy others?
2. What does financial success mean to me?
3. How am I defining my standards?
4. What is my financial plan?

For those of you who have filed bankruptcy you have a ‘fresh’ slate. The key to your success going forward are to watch the spending triggers and not fall victim to overloading credit.

It’s important not to live beyond your means. Your means consists of your net pay minus savings contribution, health care and supplemental retirement.

Think about your last credit card purchase. Was it truly need or wanted? Why did you have to splurge on the item? Was it to make you look or feel good?

** To survive within your means there are essentials for finances are linked to emotions:

1. Set a budget.
2. Set goals.
3. Identify spending triggers
4. Surround self with supporters
5. Educate about finances
6. Set boundaries
7. Love self

Implementing these steps is imperative to living within your means and establishing wealth for yourself. Remember, anyone is capable of getting out of debt. It’s identifying the cause that is affecting the continuous behavior. Before acknowledging, the fundamental steps to living within a budget address the debt. It is essential to know where you stand in your financial dilemma. Be aware of your total balances, payments and rates.


Be inspired,
Bahiyah Shabazz