Overwhelmed and out of budget for Thanksgiving

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We all knew this day was coming. It’s destined to happen every year. The family gathers around to give thanks for what they have received during the year and acknowledge the love within the room.

The family gathering increases yearly due to the additions to the family from small children, in-laws and pets. Everyone looks forward to visiting your household because you are familiar with the etiquette of hosting and serving.

What you didn’t predict was the economy taking a toll on your holiday budget.

What are you going to do now? Your heart is filled with emotions of disappointment. You can’t supply the banquet spread you have done yearly. Your guests and family won’t understand the stress your household has taken from limited funds.

Since everyone enjoys your hospitality there’s no reason for you to discontinue with tradition. Invite your guests and family as you normally do, but ask for assistance.

Everyone is aware of the financial stress each person has taken, why should you be any different.

1. Establish a complete potluck meal.

2. Create a list of items you want served for the Thanksgiving feast.

3. Delegate the responsibilities to others to make a successful and thankful holiday.

4. Establish a time for arrival so that dinner is served in a timely fashion.

To continue with an upbeat ambiance create a prepared menu that list each item from appetizer to desert placed strategically in front of each guest seat. This small detail will make you feel great about putting your final additions on the dinner.

Many times women feel the weight on their shoulders by trying to be every woman to each person. It’s perfectly fine to ask for assistance when needed. This is a time to feel elated about life, your accomplishments, blessings and family.

Remember, family and guests are visiting your household for a sense of comfort and love. I’m sure bringing a dish this year won’t be a problem and it will demonstrate the appreciation from the prior moments.

Happy Thanksgiving!



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Bahiyah Shabazz